Had to repost, from carminas blog

What is a perfect girlfriend? They say there’s no such thing as perfection, and that she doesn’t exist.

She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date. This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste. You call her insecure.

She holds on to you like she’s never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she’s lucky that she has you, and no, you’re not available. You call her clingy.

She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there’s nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed. You call her shallow and jealous.

She checks up on you, making sure you made it home safely or that you’re not out getting yourself into any kind of trouble. This is her way of showing how often she thinks about you and that she worries constantly because that’s how much she cares. You say she’s nagging.

She cries when you do or say something wrong. This is her way of saying “That hurt only because YOU said it and I love YOU.” You call her overly sensitive and emotional.

She loves you more than you love her. This is her way of dealing with the fact that your relationship wasn’t like how it used to be, but she is willing to make room for more love and some changes. You push her away. You call her dramatic and annoying.

So go ahead. Leave the insecure, clingy, jealous, nagging, overly sensitive, annoying girl.

She will soon be much happier in the arms of someone who actually deserves her:
the perfect boyfriend.

She's the girl that has a few best friends & doesn't need anymore, the girl that laughs the hardest at her own jokes. She's the girl that will hang up on you, but then call you right back & say sorry. She's the girl who will never leave your side when you need her, the girl who will go out of her way to cheer you up. She's the girl who never sleeps without her teddy bear by her side, she's the girl who says she isn't ticklish, but really is. She's the girl who will not give up on you if she really believes in you. She's the girl who believes in loving somebody forever.

Can't get enough

My cousins are the best. i love hanging out with them. i need more time though. this break is too short.Haven't really spend anytime with friends. been with the family the whole week. After our cousins wedding we've been really close. and since my cousin from NY is here now we've been kickn' it more. and planning more and more. Planning to go to Disneyland is the best :) && besides family i get to see tuan & spend some times with him.

Thanks

A video ag dedicated to tuan & i

Guys are assholes. If you argue with him, you’re hard-headed. If you’re quiet, you don’t care. If you call him, you’re too clingy crazy. If he calls you, he says you should be happy. If you don’t love him, he’ll try to win you. When you do love him, he leaves. If you don’t fuck him, you’re a tease. If you do, you’re easy. You tell him your problems, he says you’re irritating. If you don’t, he says you don’t trust him. If you lecture him, you just want to argue. If he lectures you, it’s because he ‘cares.’ If you break a promise, he doesn’t trust you anymore. If he breaks it, it’s because he had to. If you cheat, he expects it to be over. If he cheats, he wants another chance. THEY’RE ALL BASICALLY THE SAME. Guys drink to forget about girls; girls drink to think back about the guy. When guys are in love, they become poor; when girls are in love, they become pretty. Guys can forget, but can’t forgive; girls can forgive, but can’t forget. When guys are heart-broken, they try to forget about the girl by going out with another girl; when girls are heart-broken, they try to find his characteristics in another guy. Guys wish to be her first love; girls wish to be his last.

A picture is worth a thousand words

Congrats to my cousin Stanley and his bride Fiona. Married on 9.9.09 & today/yesterday 12.19.09 was their banquet. i had lots of fun at their ceremony in the morning. following the Chinese tradition and then their banquet dinner. I'm not gonna post every single picture here cause that's too much but it is on facebook and every single one of the picture is worth a thousand words. Had some good ass time with all my cousins from my mom's side, missing robert who's stuck with the snow storm back in new york but will arrive later the week. What a memorable day. one cousin down, many more to go. i wonder who's next :)

getting ready to use the poppers on the bride and groom.

check out their converse though

chinese tradition. tea ceremony from 2nd auntie & uncle to the 8th

family picture with the bride and groom

Mom side of the family. still missing some people.

a picture board for us to sign

good ass wedding cake

family with the couple

My lovely cousin altha & sister

family with Rose

bride in her wedding gown

playing another game

Ending the night with their speech

I HATE LIARS. i know more than what you think i know. hahaha

2more fuckn' school days and i'm through for the year. So glad that winter break is coming up this weekend. i'm also satisfied with the field trip to sactown today. visited the state capitcal :) loved every momment of it.

"future bgirl"

FAIL!

My doggs

those feelings completed my days. i miss it

<3

Love the piercing :. Another two weeks and its gonna be winter break :) too excited for my field trip to sac town and too excited for my cousins wedding. I haven't blog much for a while and its cause i never have anything to say. I've been out and i'm too lazy to blog about what i do. i miss everything i use to have. i miss getting the butterflies and be as happy as much as i can. :) Everything is fine though and hopefully it stays that way. mmkay peace out.

i miss my phone